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May 22

11 Powerful lessons for the rest of your life


Prioritize mental health over any career.

There's always criticism when doing great things. Don't let it deter you.

Risks are required for life's greatest rewards.

Maintain privacy even with trusted people.

Embrace independence to become unstoppable.

Accept that not everyone will like you.

Be adaptable when obstacles arise.

Your mood is your choice.

Don't stress over things out of your control.

Surround yourself with supportive people.

You have the power to create yourself, life is not about finding yourself.




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Writer, Psychology Lover and Content Reader 1y

What is the most important lesson in life?


01.


It's great to see the good in people. However, make sure you set boundaries to protect your energy.


02.


Many temporary people will come and go from your life, but you shouldn't get affected by them.


03.


People have their reasons to stay with you and when they don't have one, they just leave.


04.


Not everyone is good as their words. So, we shouldn't trust someone easily.


05.


Minding one's business is something elders should really teach generations to come.


06.


You are under no obligation to make sense to others.


07.


You deserve to celebrate not only who you've become, but who you could've become but fought not to be.



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Psychological Counselor(2014-present), LA8mo

What is your one golden rule in life?

1. It’s okay to not be happy all the time.


2. Everyone has a purpose in life. Perhaps yours is watching television.


3. Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.


4. All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.


5. You can’t fix stupid.


6. Laugh a lot. It burns a lot of calories.


7. Trying is the first step toward success, or the failure.


8. Be stubborn about your goals, but flexible about your methods.


9. Remember that it always gets worse before it gets better.



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 Jun 29

How to completely change your life in the next 6 months


Sleep early and wake up early everyday for 6 months.

Plan your next day agenda a night before.

Prioritize 2hours every morning for prayer, meditation, and spiritual growth.

Exercise consistently and eat healthy diet for 6 months.

Read at least one book every month.

Dedicate more time to learn a new skill or master existing one.

Build your resume, apply for jobs every day or start a business.

Change your environment if it's not enabling your mental, emotional or business growth.

Spend your least time on social media unless it's for business.

Spend time with your family, foster productive relationships and create a good life for yourself outside social media.



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Lives in Indore, Madhya Pradesh, IndiaJun 5

What are some lessons that life teaches you?

Success is not determined by your gender, but by your skills, dedication, and hard work. 💪🏻

Misunderstandings left unresolved can sow seeds of permanent separation. 🌱

The only way to achieve what you desire is by putting in the necessary effort and taking action. 🚀

Your level of focus is the bridge between the life you dream of and the life you currently have. 🎯

If you enter a relationship without the intention of building a long-term commitment, you may be setting yourself up for heartbreak. 💔

Instead of comparing yourself to others who started their journey earlier, concentrate on your personal growth and progress. 🌱

True confidence comes from recognizing your own worth without diminishing the value of others. ✨

Lowering your standards to meet someone else's expectations often leads to negative consequences. It's time to rise above and stay true to yourself. 🙌🏻

Personal growth entails self-reflection, self-correction, and taking responsibility for your own life instead of blaming others. 🌱

Although you cannot change the past, you have the power to create a better future starting from where you are now. 🌟



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05 Life learnt lessons that you wished know before


You don’t regret the things you did , you only regret the things you didn’t do.

Execute & Fail faster and that is the greatest way to learn.

Criticism is a good thing. (Took me a while to realize)

Emotions are overrated.

Life is short , it should be spent doing the things you love.



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Can you naturally be a stoic?

I think it's possible to naturally be a stoic.



In fact, I think being naturally a stoic is something that most of us experience at some point in our lives. It's just not something we usually notice.


Why? Because you don't need to be a stoic to live in the world—it is what it is. You don't need to change your surroundings or the people around you, because they are what they are and will continue being that way regardless of what happens between you and them.


You can still enjoy life, but if you're going to do so, you have to accept this fact about reality: things are going to happen that make no sense whatsoever and are beyond your control. You'll have bad days at work and good days at work; people will disappoint you and surprise you; sometimes things will go wrong for no reason at all, just because that's how life works sometimes. And then there are all those little things: traffic jams, delays on the train or bus ride home from work every day… And maybe even your own body's limitations—everything from chronic pain to the need for glasses or hearing aids—and many people naturally accept these events and roll with them.


Many people naturally embody stoic qualities.




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Updated Jan 19

Things A Man Must Know By Age 25:

1. A man must figure out how to judge people's authenticity.


This helps him avoid getting cheated or


fooled in life.


This also helps him identify his true friends and enemies.


2. A man must figure out how to earn money.


Making your own money and getting self sufficient is a non negotiable for all men.


You have to obey who pays for your food and shelter.


To truly become independent a man must not depend on anyone for his survival.


3. A man must gain full control of his lust.


A man who can control his desires is a man free one of the most dangerous weapons used against men.


Women.


A man driven by lust is used by women as a slave.


4. A man must gain mental toughness, emotional stability and physical strength in his 20s.


These are every man's prime years, he can be anything he wants to be in these golden years.


This is when he understands his dependence on testosterone and optimizes it for life.


5. A man must gain command over his rage, anger, ruthlessness, kindness, love, patience and his tongue.


The right use of these at the right times can make him the best man alive.


Any man who fails in life is because he lost control of one or more of these.


6. A man should be knowledgeable about the 3 dark triads.


Identifying these in himself or in others


will help him excel in life.


He can use people's nature to his advantage in almost all situations


7. Most importantly, a man must figure out how to identify good women.


Choosing a wife is the most important decision of a man's life.


He can't get this wrong or everything else is spoiled by this.


He must know by the age 25, how to live with women and how to lead them.


How to not compromise with your respect, honor or goals while leading her.


Be it from heartbreak or teachings from a good mentor.


A man must know this all.



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Updated Jan 19

Things A Man Must Know By Age 25:

1. A man must figure out how to judge people's authenticity.


This helps him avoid getting cheated or


fooled in life.


This also helps him identify his true friends and enemies.


2. A man must figure out how to earn money.


Making your own money and getting self sufficient is a non negotiable for all men.


You have to obey who pays for your food and shelter.


To truly become independent a man must not depend on anyone for his survival.


3. A man must gain full control of his lust.


A man who can control his desires is a man free one of the most dangerous weapons used against men.


Women.


A man driven by lust is used by women as a slave.


4. A man must gain mental toughness, emotional stability and physical strength in his 20s.


These are every man's prime years, he can be anything he wants to be in these golden years.


This is when he understands his dependence on testosterone and optimizes it for life.


5. A man must gain command over his rage, anger, ruthlessness, kindness, love, patience and his tongue.


The right use of these at the right times can make him the best man alive.


Any man who fails in life is because he lost control of one or more of these.


6. A man should be knowledgeable about the 3 dark triads.


Identifying these in himself or in others


will help him excel in life.


He can use people's nature to his advantage in almost all situations


7. Most importantly, a man must figure out how to identify good women.


Choosing a wife is the most important


decision of a man's life.


He can't get this wrong or everything else is spoiled by this.


He must know by the age 25, how to live with women and how to lead them.


How to not compromise with your respect, honor or goals while leading her.


Be it from heartbreak or teachings from a good mentor.


A man must know this all.


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Life Coach, Speaker, Writer. Published on TIME, INC & Huffington Post.Updated 1y

How can I make my day productive?


Schedule Your Time - Including Joyful Activities, schedule everything to be able to take control over your day.

Fill Your Calendar To The Brim - White Space on your Calendar is time you will waste in >90% of the cases.

Recharge Effectively - Most activities do not recharge you. Keep close attention to what makes you feel better afterwards.

Prioritize Your Tasks - Often we do the things that are less important but easier, which make us feel less productive at the end of the day.

Do The Hardest Thing First - It sets a great tone for the day. The first 2 hours of the day are the most important ones

Get Up Early - Everything you do before the world wakes up will make you feel more productive.

Make It A Habit - If you set certain hours in the day as ‘productive hours’ and work during that time period every day they’ll carry you through the worst days.

Keep A Clean Environment, Desk & Desktop - The less is distracting you or in your field of view the more of your brain power can be allocated to the things that matter.

Smile & Sit Up Straight - ‘Motion creates Emotion’ says the Embodiment Theory. Test it yourself. The more space you take up and the wider you smile the better you feel.



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BA, MS in Military History and Wars  & Behavioral Psychology, History (Graduated 1984)Jan 17

What are some financial principles that even the wealthiest people use to stay wealthy?

Living on borrowed money because its not taxable.

They don't buy a lot of depreciating assets like cars, computers and software.

They use partners to invest and then buy the partner's out before the business becomes very successful. They basically used other people's money to make themselves more money.

They buy the worst house or property in a great neighborhood and hang on to it until it goes up in value and sell it as is.



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Passionate Writer, CA (2013 - present)Updated 1y

What is one thing that I can learn from you today?

1. The fuller your phone battery is by the end of the day, the better your day was.


2. You don't know what your pet named you.


3. Maturity is when you realize that silence is more powerful than proving a point.


4. World history unfolding seems so unreal until you experience it first hand and it becomes too real.


5. A lot of people probably think they're unattractive just because they're not in a relationship.


6. Feeling safe in someone’s energy is a different type of intimacy.


7. The harshest lesson in life is realizing that your own brain isn't automatically on your side.


8. No one ever confuses North and South, but people regularly confuse East and West.


9. Some people will judge you for changing.


Others will celebrate you for growing.

Choose your circle carefully.



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Finding peace!2y

What are some sad truths about life?

The world will not treat you better just because you're a good person.

No one has the answer. You're going to spend a lot of time figuring things out.

Everything ends. Youth. Love. Life. All end. And that's make everything valuable.

When in love everyone becomes an idiot.

Not all friends are meant to be kept.

Rejection is important for self development

It's harder to be kind than clever

The world doesn't care about your potential. It cares about what you've done.

You have to let people down to be happy

There are only 24hours in a day. So make Today is the day to change your life

Comparison is the thief of joy. The only competition is starting back at you in the mirror

Loving too much always kills you.

Embrace judgement. No matter your outcome, you'll always be judged. So don't live to impress others, live to impress yourself

Failure is opportunity. Without failure, there cannot be success. Failure is a stepping stone toward success

Perfection is the killer of dreams. If you seek perfection, you'll never reach it.

Change is inevitable. If it doesn't challenge you, it won't change you

Your EQ>IQ

You can learn a job

You can't learn how not to be an asshole

Your emotional intelligence will open up doors that IQ can't

You are not in a pain. The pain is in you. Understand the difference



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What could a 20-year-old do to potentially improve their quality of life?


Stay Ignorant: Failed people are always trying to teach you something. You will go a long way if you learn to be ignorant of them. And listen to the 1% that's successful.

Stress and Anxiety: They destroy your health and disables you to perform in your career. You must figure out a way to manage this. It’s good to learn now, not when you are old.

Save and Invest: The average millionaire starts investing in their 20s. If you only save $5 a day and invest in an Index Fund, after 50 years you will have more than $1,000,000. Imagine if you saved more, you will have that million much earlier.

Play to Your strengths: This is the time to develop your strengths, not worry about your weakness. It’s a waste of time when a creative introvert tries to be charismatic. You must double down on skills that are easy to you.

Meaningful Career: There is money in every industry. You don’t have to stick to what society tells you is valuable. Once you get a job or start a business that plays to your strengths, you will earn money.

Think Long-term: Don’t expect a high-paying job/business right away. Chose the work that trains you even if it’s low-paying. Once you have the skills you will make more money in the long-run.

Find Similar People: The people you spend time with every day will end up being your long-term friends. Find the company you like. Stay away from the people you despise.

Dissolve Your Ego: You are not your thoughts and emotions. You are one who observes them. You have the power to shift your thoughts. The sooner you apply it, the better you reality.

Replace Bad Habits: Habits can only be replaced. Know the reward of your bad habit, and give yourself the same reward with a different habit. When you get hungry, replace the junk-food with an apple.



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What are the unwritten rules of a happy life?

1. Less selfies, more soul.


2. Happiness is rare because it requires effort.


3. Sometimes loneliness can be a gift too.


4. If you are happy in real life, you don’t need to prove it on social media.


5. Fear is contagious, so is hope.


6. Stop assuming things aren’t attainable for you.


7. Sometimes walking away from the relationship is a step forward, not a step backward.


8. Vibe alone for a bit. You’ll realize a lot.


9. Overthinking kills your happiness.


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What is the deepest truth you have discovered in life?


01.Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind always.


02. Places ain't home. People are. Tables and chairs are nothing.


03. Not everything has to make sense. Let it go. Choose peace.


04. Everything you love, keep it private!!


05. Even when you trust someone, keep some things to yourself.


06. You can listen to and respect someone's point of view, without absorbing it.


07. Start pointing out what you love about yourself, rather than what you hate.


08. Give yourself enough respect to walk away from anyone who doesn't see your worth.


09. You can't force something to be more than what it should. Sometimes the people we love, can't comprehend what we feel.


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To love is to dream Feb 1

What was the most important lesson you learned from your father?


Good things don't come easily

Sometimes it's not all about you, not everything revolves around you

You shouldn't waste your time explaining yourself to others, just do what you need to do and want to do

Lead do not follow. Do not follow the crowd just because it seems easy

Success comes with risks and surprises in the way

Everything seems impossible until you don't try and tackle it

Life teaches us the value of time and time teaches us the value of life. Life and time are the best teachers.






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